Finding A Spouse Overseas
Marrying someone overseas could be a wonderful experience for you; it can also be a very scary one. Not everyone is comfortable doing it; the first things to consider are these:
Does he or she have a good reputation in the community?
Anyone with a decent background has a pretty good chance of having a successful marriage. Reputable people have a lot to offer to the people around them; their beauty, skills, intelligence are just some of the advantages you can’t deny. And when you start exchanging letters and have established contact through websites or sleepless nights, then you have the opportunity to be more familiar with the person in a safe environment before you agree to marry him or her.
Where do you meet the person?
Staying at home is easy, but if you decide to meet someone while traveling the world, it is often easier to ask an acquaintance or someone nearby to help introduce the two of you.
It is better to be safe than sorry. For this reason, you should never allow your meeting to pre-arranged through an international dating service.
If the relationship starts online and becomes serious, you could be invited to travel to meet the person personally, and even have the trip planned by a professional agency. However, such a meeting could put your life in danger so keep that in mind and plan accordingly.
There is nothing wrong with using the Internet or a computer dating service to help you engage with foreign countries and meet people. It has become conventional even for teenage boys to hand around a computer to find contacts and meet people. Once you have met a person you can exchange phone numbers and also other information to communicate further.
But the online world is just a bridge to the blind, the deaf and the elderly. You have to be careful when you are meeting people from other cultures.
Never ever send money to someone for a in-country meeting. It is possible the money may even come from organized crime. There are a lot of dating-related scams, but they are easily discovered, since they give themselves away pretty easily.
Never assume that just because a picture is on a flirting website, that a person is what their looks say. Often there are a lot of other things that you don’t know about the person. Be very cautious if you are considering sending nude photos of yourself. Exposing yourself personal information, such as where you work, your vital statistics, your income, credit card numbers, is putting yourself in a risky situation.
Don’t ignore the pictures, communicate with the person. Decide before you contact whether you are going to act upon what you’ve read in his or her profile or not. The Internet makes it easy for strange people to disguise themselves. Once you’ve taken that leap of faith, it’s oftentimes very hard to back out without at least some emotional ramifications. But with any luck, you will have found someone who you can share the rest of your life with. And your experiences coming from two completely different parts of the world can only bring you closer together as you learn more and more about each other each and every day of your marriage.